
Kay Xiong
VirtualHigh Satisfaction Rate
10 years of experience
Meet Kay
My sessions are a blend of a warm, gentle, and compassionate personality mixed with a "let's call it what it is" twist in sessions has helped me to work effectively with a wide range of adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief/loss, life transition, to relationship and communication problems. My role as a therapist is that of a listener, a collaborative problem solver, and a teacher/coach to help you better understand yourself and learn skills to regulate your emotions and behaviors. I gravitate towards a mixture of cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, solution-focused, and eye-movement de-sensitization reprocessing (EMDR) in my practice because each client is unique in their walk of life and there is no one-size-fits-all therapy.
The role I play as a therapist is that of a listener, a collaborative problem solver, and a teacher/coach to help you better understand yourself and learn skills to regulate your emotions and behaviors.
Communication Style
- Action-oriented
- Challenging
- Instructive
- Mindful
- Open-minded
Specialties & Approaches
Specialties
- Anxiety
- Burnout
- Cultural Issues/Racial Stress
- Depression
- Family Conflict (1 adult in session)
- Grief
- Individual Therapy
- Life Transitions
- Panic
- Relationship Concerns (1 adult in session)
- Stress
Focus Areas
- BIPOC
- Asian / Pacific Islander community
- Non-monogamous relationships
Licensed In
Locations
Virtual appointments available for California residents
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Interests
Outside of my work, I enjoy an active lifestyle of traveling, discovering new experiences and food and chasing after side quests. I enjoy riding horses, live music, exploring difficult cultures and cuisines, and spending quality time with the people I care about. I value curiosity, personal growth and creating a life that feels both meaningful and fun.
Insurance Accepted
- Aetna
- Blue Shield of California
- Cigna Healthcare/Evernorth
- Centivo
- Anthem Blue Cross of CA
- Out-of-State BlueCard PPO
- Prime Health
- Health Net
- None, I’m paying out of pocket
Credentials & Verification
License number
#92780 • California • LMFT
Education
BA - Psychology, California State University Fresno MA - Marriage and Family Therapy, California State University, Fresno
Kay Xiong, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist License #92780 (exp June 2027)
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$28
/ session on average with insurance
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