Navigating Election Stress and Anxiety
As a therapist, have you seen more stress and anxiety around this election compared to others?
Yes, I am seeing increased stress and anxiety, which is not surprising given the collective trauma we have faced this year due to the pandemic, police brutality and the systemic racism in our society.
Elevated baseline stress coupled with an election that feels so important in American history is only pushing people further. I think in past elections it has been hard to fully understand how the federal government impacts us as individuals.
What is normal to be feeling leading up to the election?
I think it’s normal to feel stressed and overwhelmed by it. However, it’s an issue when it becomes paralyzing. Are you able to engage with activities or hobbies outside of politics? If not, then your anxiety might not be in check and it might be helpful to speak to a professional or try mindfulness techniques to clear out the noise.
How do you recommend talking to family or friends who may have different political views?
I think we are conditioned to assume people are trying to fight with us if they have different political beliefs. For the loved ones in your life, I think the best way to talk about opposing views is to learn more about their beliefs, and allow the space for them to be heard. I also encourage everyone to stay inquisitive, for this will help prevent the combative nature that can arise in these conversations.
Do you have any other thoughts you’d like to add?
We talk about election anxiety and stress, but I think that there is also a collective grief around the election. We are living through a pandemic, we’re grieving the world around us, losing friends and family, losing our favorite activities, and the sense of our cities. If we start to see it as grief, we can actually start the process of grieving the world around us by not shutting down the sadness but working through it.